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How to Have the Best French Kiss Ever

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That moment when the person of your dreams looks at you with longing eyes, as if they are glancing at your very soul, and your body starts to tremble, you feel a heat rushing over your body, your knees feel weak, you can’t stand the tension anymore. You just have to give in to it.

Suddenly, your lips are locked and you’re in the middle of a French kiss. You feel wonderful but you are constantly worrying if the other person is enjoying it as much as you want them to. You feel clueless about how to make this moment last, but don’t want to try anything in fear that you might ruin the moment and it might never come back.

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As with many finer things in life, the French kiss too, takes practice.

Getting the French kiss wrong could be damaging for your relationship, regardless of which stage it is in. A number of things could get in the way. How much tongue should be involved? What if there’s bad breath? French kissing someone is so much more than just kissing. Get one thing wrong and it could be a thing of embarrassment for you instead of being a moment to treasure.

When two people French kiss, they get to know each other intimately. They find out how they taste, smell and feel in intimate moments. You even decide whether you want to kiss that person again, ever. So let’s give you some well thought out French kissing tips so that you never have to face any such embarrassing situations.

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Understand Your Lips

First of all, you need to understand the fact that your lips are built differently than most of your skin. They are more sensitive than the rest of your skin. The lips feel more, they are more sensitive. When you engage in something as passionate as a French kiss, your lips are bound to feel more than what the rest of your body feels. So, keep that in mind.

Hygiene Is Crucial

If you are looking forward to a night full of passionate lovemaking, pay attention to your oral hygiene. Brush your teeth twice a day, rinse it with mouthwash and keep a mint gum in your mouth before the French lip kiss with that special someone. Trust us, all of it will pay off.

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Make It a Welcoming Gesture

A good French kiss should be a welcoming gesture. Let your partner in by gently parting your lips and making it drawing the tip of your tongue across their lips. Put as little pressure as possible. The key is to be gentle here. If your partner welcomes you in the same way, you’ve succeeded. Congratulations!

Know How to Use Your Tongue

Make good use of your tongue. Start with gently sucking on your partner’s tongue and let him/her feel it, take it in. Be gentle…as gentle as you can. Then begin to explore his/her mouth with your tongue gently. Lightly brush your tongue along the back of their teeth for an unforgettable experience.

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Always, always breathe through your nose, not your mouth.

The importance of a good French kiss can’t be stressed enough. With it, you can find out how compatible you two are with each other. It can tell your partner a lot without you having to speak a word. It can bring you closer to your partner than ever.

HOW TO DIRTY TALK YOUR WAY TO HIS BED

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No one, absolutely no one likes to be quiet during lovemaking.
Talking dirty is a way of enjoying intercourse more and getting even closer to each other. When done right, it has the power to transform your pleasure life. But ONLY when it is done right. Even one single mistake can make you feel like you’ve ruined the mood of your partner. So you must tread very carefully in this delicate territory.

WHY DIRTY TALK? WHAT’S THE POINT?

Dirty talk is important to build tension, arousal, and more such as –

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To Keep Your Man Thinking About YouTo Keep Your Man Thinking About You – Every woman wants her man to think about her. And think only about her. With dirty talk, you’ll be dropping subtle hints that will make him just think, think, think about you and get horny. You know this is crucial, right?

To Double The Fun – The whole point of dirty talk is to make things more interesting and fun for you two. So remember that!

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To Titillate The Deep DesiresSeated deep in their heart. They don’t talk about these desires, they keep these desires to themselves because these are too intimate, too personal. By talking dirty, you’ll be appealing to the deep desires in your man’s heart and help him open up to you more. You’ll be making his comfort zone even more comfortable.

Because Talking Dirty Is Hot – Screaming dirty words out loud is incredibly arousing. Dirty talk releases the stress that you and your partner were been through the whole day and lets your minds focus on the fun you’re about to have.

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To Titillate The Deep Desires – Everyone has desires seated deep in their heart. They don’t talk about these desires, they keep these desires to themselves because these are too intimate, too personal. By talking dirty, you’ll be appealing to the deep desires in your man’s heart and help him open up to you more. You’ll be making his comfort zone even more comfortable.

It Builds Tension – If you want to enjoy your love life to the fullest, you’d want to build tension while making love. Talking dirty does this job better than only one thing – visual cues. And with you dressed to kill (so to speak), the only help other than visual cues he needs is some verbal cues. And you’re going to help him with that!

Now, let’s get you talking dirty:

Use these lines or make up your own from these:
“You’re the hottest thing I’ve seen in my life.”
“I’m here to carry out your every wish.”
“Tie me up.”
“I’ve done some very bad things, and I want you to punish me for those…”
“I’ve been a bad girl. Won’t you punish me for my mistakes?”
“I love the things you make me do…”
“Last night I dreamt of you undressing me..”
“My mouth is waiting to taste yours.”
“This bitch is yours.”

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Never feel bad about yourself when you’re talking dirty. Remember that dirty talk is not disrespect. It’s a way of building tension before the act of lovemaking. It’s meant for fun and excitement. Nothing more, nothing less. Saying dirty words inside the bedroom doesn’t make you a bad person or doesn’t taint your character in any way.

3 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER, EVER DO IN THE BEDROOM WHILE LOVEMAKING

3 things to avoid in bedroom while having sex

There’s a lot of things you do for good a good session of lovemaking. You try something new, you purchase personal lubricants, and you explore new accessories like S&M Blindfold. But sometimes, you should watch out for things that are a big no-no in the bedroom. And although this is by no-means a complete list, it does contain the major-est of major blunders from which you can save yourself and your partner the next time you get cosy.

 

So, here are 3 massive orgasm-killers that we caution you to stay away from.

 

1. Talking About Your Encyclopedia-like Knowledge Of Mating

 

"Relax, it's not your own private talk show."

 

2. Having Your Pet In The Bedroom When You Are ‘DOING IT’

You may have the cutest cat/dog in town and you both may love him/her a lot. But you don’t have to keep your pet around to watch you guys. C’mon. It’s downright creepy.

 

"Do you really want this when you are "doing it?"

 

3. NOT SHOWING INTEREST

We know that stress is a major deal these days. We all work very hard, we all get our share of (and sometimes other people’s share of) stress but it’s particularly bad when you take that to your bed. Seeing that your partner is tired is a gigantic buzz kill. If you are exhausted, say that before anything starts. Communicate to your partner in a way that they understand. But don’t yawn when your partner is trying to get it on.

 

"If you are tired, say so. Don't yawn when your partner gets it on"

 

There are plenty more things that must never be done in the bedroom. A few honourable mentions:

 

 

Discussing Babies

If you are planning to have a baby, resist the urge of talking about it when you two are in the middle of it. It’s just super weird. Some people get totally freaked out by it. Your partner can too.

 

 

Talking About Housework

Even if you two share housework, lovemaking time is not the right time to talk about dirty dishes or dusting the artefacts in the living room.

 

 

Talking Too Much

Some people just won’t stop talking. While dirty talk is great in bed, going on about random things is a mood killer. Save the talk for later. For now, just enjoy the lovemaking.

 

Crying

 

Odds are you’ve already experienced some of these things. But regardless of that, knowing these 3 things can help you to not repeat your mistake.

5 Ways To Bring Back The Fire In Your Relationship

Holding Hands is One Of the Keys to Stay Happy in A Relationship

Happiness is being together and madly in love. Right? Then, why does the idea of a truly happy couple sound so mythical sometimes? That’s because often, little things become big things and get in the way of togetherness, happiness.

 

Here are 5 tips to bring back the fire in your relationship. Maybe these can help you find what’s lost and what’s being taken away from your relationship by seemingly trivial things.

 

TAKING RESPONSIBILITY

None of us are able to control how we behave or how our partner behaves. What we can do better however, is communicate. As always, communication is the key. Constant communication can really make negative behaviour go away. If you are able to state what you are feeling and take responsibility for your behaviour, then you can improve your relationship.

 

SEEING BEYOND YOURSELF

What does one need to be truly happy in a relationship? The answer is: lack of selfishness. To understand is more important that being understood. You need to sometimes let go of what you want and take an interest what your partner wants.

 

CULTIVATING COMMON INTERESTS

The two of you must have a few interests in common. Couples always do. Finding time for these interests will bring you closer to each other. Not only will you both enjoy these, you will also look forward to these. Not to mention the fact that it will increase the level of your pleasure.

 

HUGGING WHEN YOU SEE EACH OTHER AFTER A TIRING DAY

Couples who hug each other when they meet at the end of the day are mentally stronger and more relaxed. This simple gesture of love gets them ready to face the daily grind once again the next day.

 

FOCUSING ON WHAT YOUR PARTNER DOES RIGHT THAN WRONG

One of the keys to being a happy couple is to focus on what your partner does right. Ignore what he/she does wrong and look for the great things that he/she does for you. Who knows, it might make you fall in love with him/her all over again.

 

At the end of the day, the best things in life are the simplest things in life. Do you agree? Share your comments.