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HOW TO DIRTY TALK YOUR WAY TO HIS BED

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No one, absolutely no one likes to be quiet during lovemaking.
Talking dirty is a way of enjoying intercourse more and getting even closer to each other. When done right, it has the power to transform your pleasure life. But ONLY when it is done right. Even one single mistake can make you feel like you’ve ruined the mood of your partner. So you must tread very carefully in this delicate territory.

WHY DIRTY TALK? WHAT’S THE POINT?

Dirty talk is important to build tension, arousal, and more such as –

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To Keep Your Man Thinking About YouTo Keep Your Man Thinking About You – Every woman wants her man to think about her. And think only about her. With dirty talk, you’ll be dropping subtle hints that will make him just think, think, think about you and get horny. You know this is crucial, right?

To Double The Fun – The whole point of dirty talk is to make things more interesting and fun for you two. So remember that!

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To Titillate The Deep DesiresSeated deep in their heart. They don’t talk about these desires, they keep these desires to themselves because these are too intimate, too personal. By talking dirty, you’ll be appealing to the deep desires in your man’s heart and help him open up to you more. You’ll be making his comfort zone even more comfortable.

Because Talking Dirty Is Hot – Screaming dirty words out loud is incredibly arousing. Dirty talk releases the stress that you and your partner were been through the whole day and lets your minds focus on the fun you’re about to have.

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To Titillate The Deep Desires – Everyone has desires seated deep in their heart. They don’t talk about these desires, they keep these desires to themselves because these are too intimate, too personal. By talking dirty, you’ll be appealing to the deep desires in your man’s heart and help him open up to you more. You’ll be making his comfort zone even more comfortable.

It Builds Tension – If you want to enjoy your love life to the fullest, you’d want to build tension while making love. Talking dirty does this job better than only one thing – visual cues. And with you dressed to kill (so to speak), the only help other than visual cues he needs is some verbal cues. And you’re going to help him with that!

Now, let’s get you talking dirty:

Use these lines or make up your own from these:
“You’re the hottest thing I’ve seen in my life.”
“I’m here to carry out your every wish.”
“Tie me up.”
“I’ve done some very bad things, and I want you to punish me for those…”
“I’ve been a bad girl. Won’t you punish me for my mistakes?”
“I love the things you make me do…”
“Last night I dreamt of you undressing me..”
“My mouth is waiting to taste yours.”
“This bitch is yours.”

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Never feel bad about yourself when you’re talking dirty. Remember that dirty talk is not disrespect. It’s a way of building tension before the act of lovemaking. It’s meant for fun and excitement. Nothing more, nothing less. Saying dirty words inside the bedroom doesn’t make you a bad person or doesn’t taint your character in any way.

3 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER, EVER DO IN THE BEDROOM WHILE LOVEMAKING

3 things to avoid in bedroom while having sex

There’s a lot of things you do for good a good session of lovemaking. You try something new, you purchase personal lubricants, and you explore new accessories like S&M Blindfold. But sometimes, you should watch out for things that are a big no-no in the bedroom. And although this is by no-means a complete list, it does contain the major-est of major blunders from which you can save yourself and your partner the next time you get cosy.

 

So, here are 3 massive orgasm-killers that we caution you to stay away from.

 

1. Talking About Your Encyclopedia-like Knowledge Of Mating

 

"Relax, it's not your own private talk show."

 

2. Having Your Pet In The Bedroom When You Are ‘DOING IT’

You may have the cutest cat/dog in town and you both may love him/her a lot. But you don’t have to keep your pet around to watch you guys. C’mon. It’s downright creepy.

 

"Do you really want this when you are "doing it?"

 

3. NOT SHOWING INTEREST

We know that stress is a major deal these days. We all work very hard, we all get our share of (and sometimes other people’s share of) stress but it’s particularly bad when you take that to your bed. Seeing that your partner is tired is a gigantic buzz kill. If you are exhausted, say that before anything starts. Communicate to your partner in a way that they understand. But don’t yawn when your partner is trying to get it on.

 

"If you are tired, say so. Don't yawn when your partner gets it on"

 

There are plenty more things that must never be done in the bedroom. A few honourable mentions:

 

 

Discussing Babies

If you are planning to have a baby, resist the urge of talking about it when you two are in the middle of it. It’s just super weird. Some people get totally freaked out by it. Your partner can too.

 

 

Talking About Housework

Even if you two share housework, lovemaking time is not the right time to talk about dirty dishes or dusting the artefacts in the living room.

 

 

Talking Too Much

Some people just won’t stop talking. While dirty talk is great in bed, going on about random things is a mood killer. Save the talk for later. For now, just enjoy the lovemaking.

 

Crying

 

Odds are you’ve already experienced some of these things. But regardless of that, knowing these 3 things can help you to not repeat your mistake.